Wednesday, September 10, 2008

Good Guidance

Is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed.Theodore Roosevelt
Half of the failures in life come from pulling one's horse when he is leaping.Thomas Hood
Go back a little to leap further. John Clarke
Our doubts are traitors, and make us lose the good we oft might win, by fearing to attempt. William Shakespeare
Failure is blindness to the strategic element in events; success is readiness for instant action when the opportune moment arrives. Newell D. Hillis
There is no impossibility to him who stands prepared to conquer every hazard.The fearful are the failing. Sarah J. Hale
They fail, and they alone, who have not striven. Thomas Bailey Aldrich
We learn wisdom from failure much more than success. We often discover what we will do, by finding out what we will not do. Samuel Smiles
I was never afraid of failure, for I would sooner fail than not be among the best. John Keats
It is foolish to fear what you cannot avoid.Stultum est timere quod vitare non potes. Publius Syrus
He that is down needs fear no fall. John Bunyan
Never let the fear of striking out get in your way. George Herman "Babe" Ruth
One who fears failure limits his activities.Failure is only the opportunity to moreintelligently begin again. Henry Ford
The greatest mistake you can make in life is to continually be afraid you will make one. Elbert Hubbard
Little minds are tamed and subdued by misfortunes; but great minds rise above them. Washington Irving
Our greatest glory consist not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall. Oliver Goldsmith
Wherever we look upon this earth, the opportunities take shape within the problems. Nelson A. Rockefeller
What would life be if we had no courage to attempt anything? Vincent van Gogh
Experience teaches slowly, and at the cost of mistakes. James A. Froude
It is the want of diligence, rather than the want of means, that causes most failures. Alfred Mercier
A man's life is interesting primarily when he has failed--I well know.For it's a sign that he tried to surpass himself. Georges Clemenceau
He who fears being conquered is sure of defeat. Napoleon Bonaparte
There is no failure except in no longer trying. Elbert Hubbard
There is no impossibility to him who stands prepared to conquer every hazard.The fearful are the failing. Sarah J. Hale
Disappointments are to the soul what thunderstorms are to the air. Johann C. F. von Schiller

Tuesday, September 9, 2008

A - Z

A – Accept(接受)「世界沒有十全十美的人」,你愛他/她,就必需接受他/她的一切,包括他/她的缺點。
B – Believe(相信)既然跟他/她一起就應該完全信任對方才對。
C – Care(關心)這些關心未必有實際用途,但肯定令對方暖在心頭。
D – Devoted(全心全意)愛一個人當然要全心全意,一腳踏數船不會是個好辦法,結果多數亦是分手,
E – Enjoy(享受)你應欣賞對方的一切,享受這段愛情帶硯的開心快樂、 幸福,這樣,你便會愛得更愉快,
F – Freedom(自由)雖然大家在一起,也應給予對方應有的自由及保持秘密的權利,不要讓他/她認為跟你在一起就如被困在籠裡的寵物。
G – Give(付出)愛情這東西不一定是你付出這麼「多」,便會收回這麼「多」,應該對自己一樣,毫無保留的付出,這才算得上是真愛。
H – Heart,Honesty(心,誠實)愛情最重要的道具是心,你必需真心對待,用心愛你的另一半,大家又何必要收收埋埋呢?沒有心,又怎能稱得上真心相愛?
I – Independence(獨立)甜言蜜語的人會說:「我是為你而生的。」其實,每個人都有自己的生存空間,不應過份依賴對方成為對方的沉重負擔,甚至負贅。
J – Jealousy(妒忌)適當的妒忌,呷醋能表示你對對方的重視,但切記是合情合理的呷醋,假如是毫不講理的大發雷霆地呷醋,導致的必然是惹人反感。
K – Kiss(吻)「和情人深深一吻來代替講話……好嗎?」一吻勝過千言萬語,輕輕的一吻已能代表你惜他/她,愛護他/她,所以請不要吝嗇你的紅唇。
L – Love(愛)都說是愛情,沒有愛又怎會有情呢?愛跟喜歡不同,愛一個人,你必定願意為他/她做任何事,間中不妨跟他/她說一句:「我愛你」!
M – Mature(成熟)年輕人都戀愛得較幼稚,況且,沒有人會喜歡對方長年沒頭沒腦地蹦蹦跳,人成熟一點,你的愛情亦會早熟一點, 直至開花結果。
N – Natural(自然)很多人初拍拖的時候都會把一切缺點收起來,變成另一個人,令對方吃不消,其實,不做作,流於自然的愛情才會細水長流啊!
O – Observe(觀察)經常細心觀察對方的喜好,不但能更了解對方,更能間中給他/她一些驚喜,好像愛侶看雜誌時無意讀某明星的錶漂亮時,你便可留待他/她生日的時候買給他/她, 那份心意一定比禮物來得珍貴。
P- Protect(保護)做男朋友的當然要保護女朋友,但做女朋友的亦要保護對方的尊嚴,不要讓他人中傷或者侮辱你的另一半。
Q – Quarter(寬恕)愛情裡面怎可以沒有寬恕,對他/她的錯誤,你應該以寬大的態度原諒他/她,因為你是最愛他/她的人嘛。
R – Receive(接收)對於愛侶為你做的一切,請不要表現得無動於衷,令他/她氣餒他/她付出,你便應該以欣賞的態度去接收這才能令感情更進一步。
S – Share(分享)若你愛他/她,就必需與他/她分享他/她的喜、 怒、 哀、 樂,不要只顧著自己才可以嘛,這是作為一個伴侶的最簡單的責任。
T – Try(嘗試)兩個人一起久了,可能會覺得跟對方一起很沉悶,但這多數是邁向成功愛情的其中一個階段,過了這個階段,你前面就是一條又平又直的大路了,嘗試用不同的方式去溝通溝通吧!(什麼方式? 你自己想想啦……)
U – Understand(明白)首先請你明白他/她的為人,否則你根本不可以跟他/她好好的在一起,雖然你不是他/她,不知道他/她在想什麼,但是,也可以猜猜嘛……常常要對方說出來,好像沒什麼情趣似的。
V – Vote(誓言)人人都可以發誓,「我發誓,我會愛你一生一世,否則……」……否則有啥用?誓言可以令對方覺得你好愛他/她,令對方覺得好甜蜜,
W – Willingness(願意)有時候你的另一半可能會作出一些要求,這些要求不一定是合理的,假如你不願意的話,就請你說:「不!」 如果他/她真的是喜歡你的話,他/她亦會樂意接受。
X – Expression(表達)兩個人相處,有什麼想說的,你都可以跟他/她表達你的意見或者看法,雖說有時候可以讓對方猜一下你心想的,但如果這樣行不通,那你就要嘗試表達一下你自己了。
Y – Yield (退讓)兩個人在一起,難免有爭拗,但是「忍一時,風平浪靜; 退一步,海闊天空」不要跟你的伴侶計較這麼多吧!還有,不要沒想清楚就對對方說:「分手吧!」嘗試下跟對方談一談,找出解決的方法啊!
Z- Zest(熱情)大概沒有人想他/她的另一半常常好像沒有心情似的,有時候對你的另一半熱情些,對增加你們之間的感情都會有幫助的,不過,不要大過份就可以了,免得他/她以為你吃錯藥啊!